How was the new Cha Cha Lounge? I used to love the old place!!

I used to know the owner of the Stumbling Monk when it was just a store next door to it's current location. I assume it's the same guy, but who knows. I had a major crush on him, and it became clear that he didn't have a crush on me, might even have been gay, so I stopped going there. I felt embarrassed for myself. :\